Anyway the article is titled Sex and the Married Muslim and can be found here. I actually wish I had found this sooner, back before life was throwing me several curve balls, because it would've been an interesting add-on to a couple on my anthropology papers. Basically, the article is about a television sex expert a la Sue Johanson, only Dr. Heba Kotb is an Egyptian woman who gives advice to married Muslims. And her argument? That sex is a gift from Allah to his followers and that it's in the Qur'an that [married] people are supposed to enjoy it. And while I don't know about the first part of that sentence, the second part is definitely true and something we learned the first or second day of our class.
Personally, I think it's great, even if her advice is obviously ethnocentric. The biggest exclamation points comes when she talks about homosexuality, but honestly homosexuality is so taboo in Islam that I think it isn't necessarily bad, what she is doing. Unlike Christian reform camps for gays, her perspective on conversion therapy seems to come mostly from a sexual perspective. I don't honestly believe what she does actually makes them straight, but I think it probably helps them to suppress their desires, which is better than the alternative where they get caught and imprisoned, harassed or worse. Still, I wish someone had asked her what her perspective is on gay animals when she said that she believed homosexuality is unnatural. That, to me, is the most obvious and most logical argument against homosexuality being a choice, since that would require that animals have the reasoning skills to make a choice.
Another exclamation point occurs when she talks about female desire not being "a call of nature". But again, she's obviously a product of her culture.
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